Squirting 101

Hello lady’s & gent’s before I jump into tonight’s topic I want to say thank you for visiting my blog! In case you haven’t noticed  (I must state it again because It’s all merged together ☺️). The name of this beauty is The Good, The Bad & The Freaky! Yes the freaky! This blog is 100% dedicated to sex, love and more sex! I always encourage you wonderful people to practice safe sex and don’t be afraid to drop me a comment down below!

Now in the mist of my usual late night browse on the internet I came across a topic I thought would be perfect for discussion. The topic for tonight is SQUIRTING!

This topic is near and dear to my heart because I myself am a avid squirter. It’s something I have grown to be proud of because not every woman has done it. If you don’t know what squirting is (I’m wondering what century you have just escaped from) but in a nutshell its female ejaculation. Meaning if a woman’s G-Spot is stimulated enough she’ll ejaculate a clear, odorless liquid. The orgasm may range from a gushing, to shooting across the room. The act in its self feels like walking on clouds and is pure ecstasy but the topic is wildly disputed. Many scientists state that the fluid’s makeup is mostly urine and vaginal fluids. Some scientists claim that women who experience squirting are simply learning to release one set of muscles while contracting the bladder so they can release urine during orgasm. Check out this study in the Journal of Sexual Medicine for more information.

Well now that you know the “facts” I must speak my piece. I Am A Proud Squirter! Not because it’s something I’ve learned how to do and mastered but because I have no other choice (trust me I’ve tried not to do it). I would like to share the good and the bad of having such an incredible bedroom skill.

The good; of course you all know it’s stated to be one of the best feelings in the world. Your body pulsates, nipples harden and you feel like your unable to control the sensation of that orgasm ripping through your body. It’s something that is amazing because I myself never have to work hard for an orgasm. As long as I am turned on the ejaculation tends to happen, vaginally or by clitoral simulation. The act its self is something that some women embrace and others turn away from in shame.

The bad; It’s pee?! (Not that I think it is but as long as it’s on Google or an “expert” said so people will believe it) The stigma and the shame can sometimes make women not want to engage in any sexual acts. Example when I was 16 I lost my virginity, the guy (who was a little large for a newbie like myself) brought on my first orgasm. Long story short we were young and we both had never experienced such a thing. He was grossed out and managed to shame me about the fact that his brand new car seats were soaking wet. He dropped me of at my house and I never heard from him again. The first guy I fell in love with rejected me and called me a “freak” and that stuck with me all the way into adulthood. I didn’t understand my body and I truly thought something was wrong with me. I didn’t enjoy sex, I would try to avoid it at all cost. The few times I would have sex I wouldn’t allow myself to have an orgasm or get worked up (which was uncomfortable as hell might I add). It wasnt until years later (when I was 20) when I shared my “little secret” with a co-worker over drinks that I realized I could do something that most women couldn’t & NATURALLY. Not only could I achieve an orgasm, but I could have intoxicating, spine tingling ones over and over again.

I’m not an expert by far but I don’t think the medical community has an answer to the phenomenon. Theyre just recently learning about the G-Spot so, how could they make a clear assumption about what the fluid is let alone where it really comes from. Just browse the internet and there are so many medical experts that stand strongly on several different study’s and opinions. Which is fine they may never have a clear answer but in the sexual community it’s either viewed as disgusting or it becomes a goal to accomplish during sex rather than a focus on sexual pleasure. You don’t know how many times I’ve warned a guy right before sex that I’m a squirter, they’ll node excitedly until…..they’re soaking wet & now acting as though they’ve been casted as the main star in a PornHub flick. Then the next day they’re either pissed about their sheets or wanting some more. It’s a really baffling situation but I love it and it makes sex interesting! My question is have any of you experienced squirting first hand? If so, drop it down below I want to hear from you! Until next time remember you guys safe sex, is great sex!

Today’s Topic Is About What ?? 😧

Welcome lady’s and gents , if you haven’t noticed the name of this blog is called The Good, The Bad and The Freaky. Lol yes the freaky! This is a blog dedicated 100% to sex, love and more sex. Not only will I be giving you the low down on my freaky escapades but some advice on the things I’ve encountered involving love and sex. So thanks for visiting my blog and I hope you enjoy!!

Todays topic is: Is there such a thing as no strings attached?

Okay it was Monday and I was lying in bed all cuddled up with my doggie, I was just dozing off when my phone starts vibrating. So I roll over and look at the bright ass screen that nearly lazored my eyes out, and it’s (for kicks lets call him “Mighty Mouth” lol). I looked at the time and it’s 2:45 a.m , I’m aggravated but I figured sh!t I had a bad day a quick big O wouldn’t be so bad. So I answered it, and within 20 minutes I went from grandma to sexy kitten. He came in the house and IT WENT DOWN!!! Ladies I don’t call him Mighty Mouth for nothing, it’s like the guy has a PhD in tongue work. Any who 2 hours later we’re both showered and all is well, he was out the door and I was back in bed snoring like a newborn baby. Now I don’t have a problem with incredible sex with no strings attached, especially if the guy isn’t relationship worthy. Don’t get me wrong after 3 months of intoxicating sex I really liked him. But I wasn’t worried about a relationship because I figured he wasn’t right for me; let alone anyone. Anyway over the next couple days I go on with life normally. In my mind he’s every bit of a booty call to me as I am to him, so we never talk in the day time. It was now Thursday I was invited to a Halloween party the next day, so I ran into a sex shop in the French Quarter looking for the most whore-ish yet classy costume I could find. Browsing the isles I happened  to hear a familiar voice , when I turned to my left it was “Mighty Mouth” with another girl. I tried to move along (just to be nosy without him seeing me) and observe what was going on. Now the first thing I noticed was a damn ring on his finger which stunned the absolute sh!t out of me because I’d never seen a ring on his finger before. The second thing I noticed was that the same mouth that had nearly sucked the soul from my body early Monday morning was now kissing, his assumed wife. The third thing that popped into my head was I THOUGHT THIS LITTLE SHIT WAS INCAPABLE OF A STABLE RELATIONSHIP!!! I was pissed not just because he was probably married but because I really liked him. I mean I told myself countless amounts of times to get over him and that it wouldn’t ever work. So I gathered myself and walked over to them. Yall, if you could have seen how big his eyes got you would have sworn he was choking. Very politely I greeted him and the big faced lady. He grinned and introduced me to her as “his beautiful WIFE”. I tried to keep a smile and but now I had to be visibly upset because she asked me did we know each other. I proceeded to say ” yeah we used to be friends in college, I just seen him Monday and he couldn’t stop running his mouth”. We laughed and I touched her arm, but Brian you didn’t tell me your wife was so attractive. She backed away, I knew the statement would make her uncomfortable enough to walk away. Which she did and I drilled him like his ass was my man. I basically asked him why he was such a liar and a dog and his response was.. You never asked if I was married! I couldn’t believe it, I was so heated I walked out of the store without my costume.

My whole thing was, it wasn’t worth it. I had fallen for a guy who was just slinging the good wood in my direction. I was so blinded by sex I never stopped to ask him about the important crap about a person. He made me question the “flawless” friends with benefits theory. I mean I wonder what would of happened if he wasn’t married and we gotten into a relationship. Would it have been just about sex? It made me realize just how many people are unhappy in relationships RIGHT now and because they started off as “Friends With Benefits”. So the moral of my story is know the person your with and the only benefits your friends should give you are great company, love and support.

But that’s just my opinion.

Do you think different? Let me know, drop a comment about what you think of friends w/benefits down below. Thanks for reading and remember safe sex saves lives!